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Have a Valentine's Fondue Party!

While you could create a romantic candlelit fondue dinner for 
two, it’s easier and just as 
much fun to invite several other
couples to join you. I suggest
 three to four couples total, 
including the hosts, depending 
on how many courses you want
 to include in your meal. If you 
don’t mind hosting it potluck-
style, asking each couple to
 bring ingredients for one course
 not only disperses the food prep,
 it also adds variety as each couple has the opportunity to select their favorite ingredients to share. 


Oftentimes we think of fondues as strictly melted cheese or chocolate. But Webster’s Dictionary defines fondue as both a preparation of melted cheese usually flavored with white wine and kirsch and a dish that consists of small pieces of food (meat or fruit) cooked in or dipped into a hot liquid. A menu with two cheese fondues, hot oil or broth for cooking meats and vegetables, and a chocolate fondue for dessert suit a Valentine’s couples party quite well. If you choose to have two cheese fondues, try to ensure that they contain different cheeses - one sharp and one mild - or different seasonings.


Add flavor to your fondue meal through the morsels you choose for dipping.

Here are my favorite dippers for each type of fondue:

Cheese Fondue

  • French or Italian bread cubes 

  • Blanched raw vegetables such as carrots, 
zucchini, cauliflower, and broccoli 

  • Apple slices 

  • Pretzels 

  • Smoked sausage slices

Hot Oil or Broth

  • Marinated beef cubes 

  • Marinated or breaded chicken bites 

  • Pork tenderloin pieces 

  • Shrimp 

You will also want to serve sauces with the meats. Some options include mustard sauce, barbecue, hoisin, curry, chimichurri, piquant, béarnaise, and chipotle mayo. 

Chocolate Fondue

  • Angel food or pound cake or frozen cheesecake 

  • Marshmallows 

  • Strawberries, bananas, mandarin orange slices, 
dried apricots, pineapple chunks 

  • Pretzels 

  • Donut holes 

  • Oreo Thins 

  • Graham crackers 


Now is your chance to break out that fondue pot you received as a wedding gift! Don’t have one? You can always make do with a Crock-Pot set on low (taking care to stir often) or a regular pot set over a heat source such as a chafing fuel, gel burner, or electric burner. Or borrow a fondue pot from a friend or relative. You will want one pot 
for each course of the main meal, reusing one for dessert. 
Fondue forks are highly recommended as well - 
particularly for use in cooking meats. The longer rod keeps 
your fingers safe and the heatproof handles make it 
possible for the fork to be left in the pot of oil or broth without 
heating up. Plus, many fondue forks are color-coded, allowing each guest to Keep track of their fork in the pot. Table forks can be used with cheese and chocolate fondues, although you’ll find it easier to stab and hold onto dippers using a fondue fork.

A Lazy Susan can also be quite handy for either serving dippers or sauces used on meats. One created for a fondue meal contains a stationary centre platform for the fondue pot, surrounded by a rotating tray for sauce bowls.


  • 2 cups grated Gruyere
  • 2 cups grated Swiss

  • 1 and 1⁄2 Tbsp. cornstarch or flour

  • 1 large garlic clove, peeled and crushed

  • 1 and 1⁄2 cups dry white wine

  • 2 tsp. fresh lemon juice
2 Tbsp. Kirsch

  • Dash of nutmeg

  • Dash of cayenne pepper
In mixing bowl, toss cheeses with cornstarch to coat.

Rub inside of saucepan or fondue pot with garlic, then discard. Pour wine and lemon juice into pan and heat
on medium until simmering, not boiling. Reduce heat 
to low and add cheese to wine, a handful at a time. Stir until melted between additions. Add Kirsch and cook for 2 more minutes. Season with nutmeg and cayenne. Keep on warm heat in fondue pot to serve.

MUSTARD SAUCE (for dipping cooked meats)

  • 1⁄2 cup light brown sugar

  • 1 to 1 and 1⁄2 Tbsp. dry mustard

  • 1 Tbsp. all purpose flour
  • 1/3 cup cider vinegar

  • 1 beef bouillon cube in 1/3 cup hot water

  • 1 Tbsp. lemon juice
2 eggs beaten to lemon yellow color

  • 1 drop yellow food coloring

Combine the brown sugar, dry mustard, and flour in the top of a double boiler. Mix thoroughly. Add vinegar and beef bouillon. Stir until smooth. Add lemon juice and beaten eggs and stir until well-blended. Place over barely boiling water and cook, stirring constantly until mixture has thickened. Remove from heat and add food coloring. Beat with a whisk until smooth and slightly bubbly. Serve hot.


  • 1 cup heavy cream

  • 1 cup whole milk

  • 3 cinnamon sticks or 1 tsp. ground cinnamon
  • 1 lb. semisweet or dark chocolate, chopped

  • 1 tsp. instant espresso powder

  • 1 tsp. ground chipotle chile or 1⁄2 tsp. ground cayenne pepper

  • 1⁄2 tsp. vanilla extract

Combine cream, milk, and cinnamon in a medium saucepan. Cook over medium-low heat, watching until small bubbles appear around the edge of the pan. Reduce heat to low and cook 5 minutes. Discard cinnamon sticks.

Gradually stir in chocolate with cream mixture until melted and smooth. Add espresso powder, ground chipotle, and vanilla. Continue to cook over low heat for 1 minute, stirring well.

Transfer to fondue pot kept on low heat.

Lara is a parenting journalist and mother of three. She and her husband have been hosting couples’ Valentine fondue parties off and on for over 10 years.  










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